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Published Date: 22 June 2008
SHE has emerged as Scotland's leading "gay divorce" lawyer, making legal history as the first civil partnerships fail to last.
And solicitor Rachael Kelsey claims that while both gay and straight couples usually split up for the same reasons, gay couples are less likely to argue over trivial items in the event of a break-up.

Edinburgh-based Kelsey has found herself dealing with break-ups resulting from Scotland's newest family institution in her role as a family law practitioner.

Since they were legalised in 2005, there have been more than 1,000 civil partnerships solemnised in Scotland, and more than 18,000 across the UK.

But, just like traditional marriages, not all have lasted. Only last week it emerged that Little Britain star Matt Lucas and his partner Kevin McGee had split 18 months after their civil partnership ceremony.

Kelsey, a family law expert with Edinburgh firm Pagan Osborne, has dealt with eight cases involving the break-up of a civil partnership since the law was changed. A third of her current family law caseload comes from same-sex partnerships. "The cases tend to be very similar to straight divorces. The disputes will be about money and property. I think that over time the rate for splitting up will be the same as for straight couples.

"One of the things you notice, at least in the cases I have dealt with so far, is that the gay couples don't tend to argue about minor trivial items as much as the straight ones."

In some cases, the two parties came to her with everything already arranged in order for there to be an amicable split.

Kelsey, who has been a lawyer since 1996, developed a track-record among the gay community through dealing with equal rights cases early in her career. That meant that when civil partnerships were brought in she was already known among same-sex couples.

A legal insider said: "She has built up a reputation over the years for being one of the most respected lawyers among the gay community."

Kelsey said that before civil partnerships, some same-sex couples would agree on future division of assets – in the event of a split – through legal contracts.

Explaining her interest in equality issues, she said: "I think many people get into law to help people be treated fairly."

Jonathon Creel and his partner Malcolm Kennedy entered into a civil partnership in 2006 after being together for 10 years.

Creel, who works with an HIV charity in Edinburgh, said: "The point from the lawyer about gay couples not arguing so much about 'trivial' things is interesting. I don't think it's because gay couples are somehow 'better' but that there is a different kind of power balance in the relationship.

"Gay couples might often both be working, they might be professionals, they are likely to bring the same things to a relationship. And when they split up, you are less likely to have one side feeling that they have given up a lot for the other partner."

Calum Irving, from the equality organisation, Stonewall Scotland, added: "I think it will become clear over time that gay couples are basically much the same as any other couple. They will be as likely to stay together and as likely to split as anyone else."

Matt Lucas, who is worth an estimated £15m, is the first high-profile gay "divorcee". He "married" his long-term boyfriend McGee in December 2006 and their ceremony was followed by a lavish pantomime-themed reception at a 17th-century palace in London. They said their split was "amicable".

Love by numbers

According to the Office for National Statistics, 18,059 couples, or 36,118 individuals, entered into an officially recognised civil partnership in the UK between December 2005 and the end of December 2006, the latest date for which figures are available. Most of the partnerships involved mature couples, with the average age being 47 for men and 44 for women.

Over the same period, there were 275,400 conventional marriages and 133,000 divorces.

The full article contains 685 words and appears in Scotland On Sunday newspaper.
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1

Beth Boyle,

NY 22/06/2008 04:01:05
What a waste of time and money. Gay marriage is just a fad.
2

PC Insanity,

The Pub 22/06/2008 07:47:29
Gang, look what someone is doing in America with regard to this Politically Correct insanity. They put up a highway billboard with a burning american flag with the headline, "Your Country is Dying from Political Correctness" www.FightPC.net
3

Samcafe,

Glasgow 22/06/2008 07:59:30
There will always be maggots making rich meals from death; the role such lawyers play.
4

Gina Gibson,

Wales 22/06/2008 08:31:06
#1 You are a bigot

#2 America is hardly the example the rest of the world should be following.
5

albanman,

22/06/2008 08:34:21
No.1 A fad? What an idiotic comment.
No.2 what on earth are you talking about, and how does your comment have anything to do with the article? By the way, it is the US flag, not the flag of America. Canadians, Mexican, Hondurans etc all live in America, and they sure don't salute the stars & stripes.
6

Shug,

22/06/2008 09:21:55
3. People consult lawyers for advice. They are not obliged to use them.
7

Symmachus,

Rome 22/06/2008 10:33:54
#5 Albanman
Nice try at to win the laurel of Pendanticus Maximumus but no Canadians ever call themselves "American" and neither do South Americans, but Yanks do - and so does the rest of the World.
'4 Gina Gibson
Being a Bigot is to be preferred to being a politcally correct, gullible, unquestioning, vox pop mouth piece. Are you not bigotted against rapists, child molesters, vandals, Wendy Alexander? Marriage as an instiution was created to remove freedoms and impose restictions which would benefit society; monogamy by the Octavian Augustus to prevent thousands of wild kids running rampage in Rome. Augustus didn't introduce it to give "rights". To believe that homosexual coupling is an equivalent benefit to society as hetrosexual marriage is not only cretinous but pc bigotry itself.
8

TimW1234,

Ottawa, Canada 22/06/2008 11:02:18
This just goes to prove that gay "marriages" are just as boring and contentious and bitchy and argumentative as straight marriages.

I am surprised the far right Fundamentalist loonies from the USA have not crawled out of the woodwork on this story.

They must be at church praying for the souls of the damned - the damned being everybody but themselves.

HYPOCRITES ALL! But then, they THINK they have Jesus on their side by special dispensation.

More fools they.
9

Gina Gibson,

Wales 22/06/2008 11:07:46
#5 Symmachus

Bigotry is an "irrational fear of something/someone"

We hate rapists/child molesters etc because of the evil things that they do.

YOU hate homosexuals just because they are homosexuals.
That is bigotry!

Why do you contend that homosexual "coupling" is any less acceptable than heterosexual "coupling?"



Some people might say that situation is preferable since homosexual coupling doesn't produce offspring like you and thereby reduces the chances of bigots like you spreading their hatred to the next generation.
10

Mercutio,

FALKIRK 22/06/2008 12:15:51
Gay Divorce? That was a film with Fred and Ginger surely?
11

Worried Scot,

22/06/2008 15:16:47
These are going to be some bitchy divorces!
12

TimW1234,

Ottawa, Canada 22/06/2008 15:27:33
11 Worried Scot

Not to worry, "Worried Scot".

These divorces will be no more "bitchy" than the ones between feuding heterosexual couples and your assumption either is a joke or you have deplorable misconceptions about gay people.
13

Worried Scot,

22/06/2008 15:29:16
#7, Symmachus

You seem awfully upset by this whole gay issue. Something to hide? If you want to share something with us we'll understand, we wont judge you. Let it out, you'll feel better. It's OK.

As far as I'm concerned other people's private lives are just that - private. I'm not gay but if others want to be(yes, even you Symmachus) then that's up to them and is no business of anyone else.
14

Worried Scot,

22/06/2008 15:30:15
#12

It was meant as a joke, no offence intended,
15

Bien E. Bien,

22/06/2008 15:33:35
Has anyone ever been the subject of a gay arranged marriage?
16

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22/06/2008 18:12:37
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Worried Scot,

22/06/2008 21:32:46
#16

They are gay marriages, in the eyes of the law they are exactly the same in all but name, they were given a different name to reassure stupid people such as your good self that gay marriage had not been legalised.

Homosexuals have always been able to adopt this is nothing new, and what "temptations"? By that logic are you sexually attracted to your sister, mother, gran? What about heterosexual women? Should they not be allowed to adopt boys incase they are "tempted"? Oh no wait, there's a difference between a paedophile and a normally adjusted adult.

I could go onto the other things you've said but I think you're just looking for a reaction so here you go, a little gift from me.

One last thing, why are you looking for dirty old men in public toilets? I merely ask 'cause it sounds pretty gay to me.

Much love my friend.
18

Jambo Number 1,

22/06/2008 21:44:36
#16

What a disgusting troglodyte you really are.

Did you mean Homosexual relationships AND child rape? What kind of disgusting perverted mind do you have? Gay people are no more likley than hetrosexual people to commit sodomy against a minor. Peter Tatchell is a hard working campainer for gay rights who has been working for years to blot out BIGOTS like you. And yes - you are one tisted disgusting bigot.
19

Tobytoo,

Southington, U.S.A. 22/06/2008 23:28:42
#5 If they live in America and can't salute the AMERICAN FLAG the "Stars and Stripes" then they do not belong here and should go back to where they came from.
20

TimW1234,

Ottawa, Canada 23/06/2008 00:49:07
#16

Go back to the cave from which you emerged, you knuckle-dragging, drooling idiot.

You must be some sort of "born-again" Christian because your comments are stupid, bigoted, and downright wrong.

You probably move your lips when you read - if you can read - and are a disgrace to this website.

Get thee gone, thou ignoramus supremus.
21

Stan1,

Edinburgh 23/06/2008 10:43:08
Surely one of the happy (and few) benefits of being gay is that you did not need to go through the farce that is marriage or divorce. Equality etc is all well and good, but I for one could not care less about walking down that aisle. I want to live with someone, settle down and all that, but who needs to deal with all this nonsense?

 

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